Change the way you see things..

I never really plan how I lead my life... Usually things fall according to what I believe is the best for me.. I fall in love with my hubby, agak awal la jugak.. didnt really plan for it to happen.. it just did.. It was my first love, and we got married quite young as well.. at the age of 21.. Then, I was pregnant with my first son, during my final year of study.. That was an unplanned joy as well.. hehe.. And after that another one came, after my son was only 1 year and 4 months old.. Pun unplanned joy...hmm, these are the doors that I opened with an open arms.. I accept it with joy and happiness.. And I realised that I am happy.. Thank you Allah.. And now, I do want to decide the doors that I open and close, to make me and my family lead a happy life.

Since I have kids of my own, I do see things in a different light.. I value some things more than before.. I interpret things differently as well.. For example, its our fun thing in the car if I can get my son to sing "the wheels on the bus" with me.. I love kissing him while he is sleeping soundly.. I love the smell of Dahlia when she wakes up in the morning (the smell of baby.. mmmmm).. not really the smell of Adam anyway, coz he'll smell very hancing due to the wet diapers.. :D I love seeing Adam all excited over a small thing, such as chocolate, seeing the birds close up, trying to touch the cat.. And I wonder.. Why did I not get this excited, happy feelings before.. Why did I not open to doors that will make me see life differently before..

Yesterday, there was this near accident happen at home.. Adam wanted to panjat his sister's rocking chair.. And then nak cube turun sendiri.. I was there, quite close to him.. I saw how he looks at what he's trying to do, as something huge.. He got all excited nak try to jump down, nampak like he's trying to impress me at the same time.. If only he could talk, I bet he'll say "Look mama!! I'm going to jump!!, I'm going to do this myself!".. But as a mum, I knew and I can sense that somehow, he's going to fall.. the rocking chair is not that stable, plus he's quite heavy and tembam ok.. However, I cant stop him from trying something new.. plus he has this excited-ness in his eyes..  In the end, I decided to let him jump, but I waited really close by to catch him if he falls.. That's what I did..

And of course, memang die jatuh pun.. Nearly fall flat on his face, but I sempat catch him 5 cm, before his nose touches the floor.. pheewwwww.... he felt surprised.. didnt cry, but has that satisfaction look in his eyes.. He said he wont do it again though..  From that incident, I learnt that, being a mother is tough.. You want to prevent bad things from happening, but at the same time you want to be the cool mum, you want only good things to happen.. you want to prevent accidents.. Hey, we are only mothers.. we are not angels!! not even a magician.. (I do wish I have magic powers sometimes though..) So, I learnt also that, I dont want to be a rigid mum.. I want my son to experience life.. if he falls, then I will be the one to tell him to get up and keep running.. If he wants to jump, I want to be the one telling him to aim high.. If he wants to sing, I want to tell him to sing his heart out.. But I also want to be the person who he comes to, when he need someone to listen to his complaints, when he needs someone to give advice and guidance.. and definitely if he needs me to rescue him.. Only if he needs me too..

I choose to be happy, and if this is the way to it, let it be.. Its hard to make everyone sees how you see things, but as long as you make yourself happy, then be it..

Loving it day after day :D

To be honest, masa I baru mula2 join PB, I actually just want to find out how truly effective it is.. Is it as good as every testimonials out there.. Is it truly worth the money spent.. Not even a single minute that I believe bulat2 sume testi about PB that I read.. I was a bit sceptical too.. But I joined anyway coz I needed something to help my back ache immediately.. And all I can think of, must be something for the posture..and that's PB..


But now, after a month of PB, hugging me most days.. (I pun ada time2 malas jugak.. hahaha), I'm loving it even more..For now, I realised that.. 


- I senang nak gi toilet and do No. 2.. Usually, I ni senang kene sembelit.. Now no more.. YEAY!!!..

 

- I can eat all I want, xde rasa PB tu mcm suruh tahan makan or anything, but I realised that I'm not hungry easily.. I can eat, tp xlah sampai mencekik.. haha.. Iguess this is good, I wont starve myself, nor would I eat like orang kebulur.. I'll just eat a nice amount of food.. Moderate la katakan..

- I usually have headache whenever I dont get good enough sleep.. Plus I memang ada migraine tahap teruk punya kes.. Lately ni, my daughter asyik lapar je.. so she'll wake up nearly every hour at night, and need to drink milk, or at least nak her pacifier.. I'm quite surprise that I x dapat headache, which before this, headache is like a normal thing, and I eat panadol macam makan gula2.. huhuhu.. 


I really dont want to say that all this good stuff I get lately is solely due to PB.. who knows maybe something else jugak.. But I know I'm grateful as it is..Alhamdulillah.. GOD willing.. If you want to try, and see how it effects you.. do give me a call..

adleen.kamaruddin@gmail.com

012-9770385

UK & PARIS Trip

Hmm.. Today is my day with Adam again.. Hopefully he can go to school tomorrow.. We had fun time watching TV, play ball, colour books, look at photos, and even watch youtube of all the children's songs.. While looking at the old photos, I suddenly miss UK again.. Not sure what it is about the UK, not the food I'm sure, nor even the coldness..But I'm sure miss it, and would like to pay a visit sometime..


So here's a chance for those who would like to go to the UK and Paris, for free!!! All expanses ditanggung beres..HUGE temptation right? I know I want to go there again, so what are you waiting for?? Grab this chance.. Lets try and make this happen, by joining me and the group..I'm all geared up to try and make this come true.. Join PB business and you'll learn how to make this happen..

UK and Paris!!!!

with all expenses paid!

Amazing!

This is just something I do part-time, and for fun.. Would you like to join the fun?? Come on ladies!!

Want to know more on how to get all these fun free stuff?

Want to go to UK +/ Paris for FREE?

Want to improve everything about you & family?

Contact me ASAP:

adleen.kamaruddin@gmail.com

012-9770385

Help friends to get in shape = extra income earned

I never knew that extra income brings a lot of joy to myself, hubby, and the kids.. Even though it can be as little as RM100 a month, I can pretty sure to be able to use that to buy Adam a toy car, or Dahlia a Barbie in the future.. Extra income is not the sole reason why I join PB business.. but its definitely the extra outcome that I enjoy.. hehe

Here, I'm sharing my first pay cheque by Hai-O marketing.. received it a few days ago..But I blom dapat enjoy the money yet, as I'm waiting for the right time to spend, for the right course.. hehe.. If anyone interested to join this business, and also get to earn RM4k ++ as their first pay cheque, please do email me, or sms.. I'll share with you the HOW to earn extra income..

Jangan malu2.. I know we all need the extra income kalo bleh. You'll get to help your friends to be healthy and get in shape, and at the same time you earn extra income.. How wonderful is that? Do contact me if you are interested..

adleen.kamaruddin@gmail.com

012-9770385

Live well ladies!!!

I've always wanted to own a good corset for quite some time.. Tapi before this, its quite difficult because of money issues, then pregnant, beranak.. then pregnant and beranak again.. hahaa.. but now, I buat jugak.. pejam mata.. merayu2 pada hubby.. and akhirnya dapat jugak.. For me, I know the susah payah untuk dapat something.. its even harder, when I couldnt afford myself, and have to ask from hubby.. Seb baik hubby quite understanding.

But after nearly a month wearing it, I can feel the difference that this PB has done to me.. And now I feel that I want to help all my friends out there yang need one, but also in the same shoe as I was before.. Money issues.. right? If you need help, nak bayar installment, or credit card, or whatever the issue is.. do let me know.. let me help you.. Seriuosly, I want to help.. This is why I join the bisnes pun.. Coz I know that it is good, and I would like to spread the wonderful-ness of PB to my friends..

If you fall under these categories, you may need PB to stay healthy and beauty..
1) Women - All women kalo bleh nak stay healthy and beautiful, right? Nak sihat and cantik for diri sendiri, for husband, bakal husband, for anak2, and etc..

Yup, that's about all.. 1 category je yg I can mention.hehe.. so if you are under this category, please PM me to get good discounts on PB..up to RM 400. Seriuosly, I wanna help..

Come, join me to be part of the wonderful, beautiful, and healthy women out there..

adleen.kamaruddin@gmail.com

012-9770385

 

Mum, I want to make mistakes of my own..

Mothers always want the best for their children. No doubt about that, coz I'm a mother too..They will try all their best to see their children lead a happy life according to what they have set the picture in their mind. Mothers will not let their children make mistakes, watch them get hurt, or even fail in their life.. However, do we mothers ever wonder that:

1) The mistakes that our children make, will make them wiser, help them grow up, become more mature, and more responsible? this is what each and every person have to go through in life.. Make mistakes, and learn from it.. That's the learning curve..

2) Get hurt, physically or emotionally.. that's just what life is about.. "jangan lompat, nanti jatuh!!", "jangan bercinta masa belajar, nanti you'll get hurt if he dumps you!!", jangan lari, nanti jatuh, luke, sakit!!".. These are all that mothers worry about.. Kalo camtu, xkan anak2 tak belajar nak lompat? nak lari? nak bercinta? Xdapat la anak2 nak jadi pelari pecut, kalo takut jatuh.. Terpaksa la anak kita jadi andartu, atau bujang sampai mati kalo takut nak bercinta..

3) You will never fail in life, if whenever you fall down, you get up again, and learn something from it.. There's no such thing as a failure, if what you learn from it, makes you a better person in the future.. And the most important thing is, how do you define if someone is a failure or not? from whose perspective? dari mata siapa?

I know that mothers always wants the best for their children, but sometimes you just need to get loose, be more understanding, and just stay back and watch.. Let your children make mistakes once in a while, and be the person who they will come to, to ask for advice and guidance.. Dont be the one who they will run away from, and hide stuff from, just because they want to learn about life.. Happy Mother's Day to my mum.. Please mum, I want to make my own mistakes and learn from them too, so that I can grow up to be a better and wiser person.. :D

What to do when...

First time my baby boy kene chicken pox, was the same day as our family nak fly to Langkawi for a holiday.. So what did I do? hmmm, daripada let Adam stay at home and feel miserable, baik bawak die to Langkawi, let him visit the park, underwater world, bawak jalan2, even though he still feels the uneasiness, and miserable.. T least he seemed so excited to get to see and touch the birds.

Adam felt so miserable since his first day of chicken pox. He doesnt want to eat, nor drink milk. He merengek je, and wanted to be hugged all the time. But then when ubat time comes, sometimes he's ok with it, sometimes xnak.. He'll cry and says sakit... sakit.. all the time.. especially when I want to put calamine lotion on his body.. Mandi is also a hassle.. He cries and cries.. saying sakiiiiitttttt... Sedih tengok him when he's sick.. so, I let him have what ever he wants.. toys, chocolate, ice-cream, ribena.. but then, even ice cream pun he refused..

So, when time like this comes, I learn that its always good to take a deep breath, and take it slow.. Whatever needs to be done, take it at his pace.. kalo die xnak mandi lagi.. dont rush it.. let it be.. pujuk slow2, try to play with him first, then take the toys to the bathroom.. make it as though its fun.. Try not to raise your voice.. I know its hard.. especially when he's screaming and nothing seems to be right.. Nak wat camner kan.. die tgh sakit.. huhuhu... so, papa had to take care of Dahlia, while I jaga Adam.. when I dah x larat, we swap over.. And its a bonus when everyone else is around to help as well.. So, I ask Adam who he wants to give him a bath.. Adam nak siape basuh poo poo? Adam nak eat with siapa? nak sleep with siapa? so, whoever he choose, has to ikut la.. :D He became a boss this whole week..

There's just no easy way out.. I guess every parent has to go through this phase, where anak2 akan gilir2 sakit.. and all you can do is take a deep breath in, and take it slow.. when they're asleep, take a nap as well to re-energize youself..